But they can also be its undoing in the bedroom. Married 30 yers too I turned 50 this yr but I also take meds as I have medical issues and recently starting anti anxiety meds. The other reason might be focusing on the partner vs the self or expecting the partner to make it happen. Women, Sex, and the Quest for Intimacy. Your doctor can suggest ways to treat your sexual problems or can refer you to a sex therapist or counselor if needed. Orgasm with a partner can be difficult to achieve for purely emotional reasons. But his perfectionism is HIS issue.
My husband of 20 yrs is Narcissistic.
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