Children who have been spanked feel that they have paid for their misbehavior and are free to misbehave again. The incident turned up the heat under a simmering national argument about how to discipline children and about ethnic and regional differences in the use of corporal punishment. It is not easy to use consequences as a way to discipline children. Natural Consequences Natural consequences allow children to learn from the natural order of the world. I want this but, O.
Effective discipline allows children to "hurt from the inside out" and focus on their actions.
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Please update your browser at http: Child development educators believe that the child is born neither good nor bad; they have the possibility of becoming good or bad according to how they are treated, the kind of experiences they have, and their reaction to their environment. The more parents use effective discipline methods, the less children need punishment. The other problem is that parents are unwittingly modeling the very kind of behavior they want to quash in their children. Some parents spank because they place a high value on obedience. If a young child runs into the street without looking, it is not possible to wait until he is hit by a car - a natural consequence - to teach him not to run into the street.